Happy Veterans’ Day

I had only been out of the Army for about a year and was only 22. I was attending university and crossed paths with someone that had been in the Marines. He too, was starting university after the service.

We would pass one another on campus, exchange greetings and that was about the extent of our acquaintance. We had no classes together, nor the same group of friends, just the bond of the service. One day, as I was walking across campus, our paths crossed and he said, “Have a great Veterans’ Day.” It felt weird, I was only 22, yet it lifted my day. Ever since then, I always take time to think about things on this day.

I was at Denny’s this weekend with my family and an elderly gentleman came in as we were leaving. He was wearing one of those hats that a navy guy wears that shows his ship’s name. I had an incredible urge to approach him and say thanks to him, but thought it would be inappropriate for some reason. Why? I don’t know. But, I kept the reflection inside and today he is in my thoughts.

My great uncle is in my thoughts. He was one of the sternest men I’ve known in my life. You know, that hard looking Italian uncle that crush your hand when you shook with him. He was letting you know your place in the family. Well, at least that’s what I thought of him until I turned 18 and joined the Army. When he heard the news, he transformed into this completely different kind of uncle. He was a medic and had seen some really bad stuff in Europe after the invasion. I never heard those stories though. What I heard was how many times he made corporal and then was busted back to private. Apparently, he was quite the free spirit and prankster. Uncle Hugh passed away a few years ago. He’s greatly missed. I started to get to know him too late. There was an honor guard at his service. I have become privileged to be in possession of the flag that was on his casket. It hangs in our home as an honor to him. Today, especially, he is in my thoughts.

A childhood friend of mine was recently promoted to Lt. Colonel in the Air Force. This guy has it going. Sharp as a tack and has always been super smart, athletic and imaginative. He is the oldest of five brothers and sisters. Sailed through the Air Force academy. Became a fighter pilot. Married a bright girl from what I understand. He’s seen a lot of recent crap. Thanks goodness he’s fine and is back stateside for now. My thoughts are with him today.

There are a few others to mention. My Ft. Polk roommates, Stefan, Ken and Terry – US Army. My college roommates, Rick and Chris – US Army. My dad’s friend, Jim – US Air Force. My great-great Uncle Salvatore, who ran up San Juan Hill with Teddy Roosevelt – US Army Calvary. My uncle and godfather, Uncle Marino – US Air Force. Some former work acquaintances, Pete – Royal Canadian Army and Terry – Royal Canadian Air Force.
These are all just a few people that are in my thoughts today.